No plans today, please.
Ever feel torn between wanting to chill in your room, and not wanting to miss out on plans with friends?
Or is it only me.
Today I got a holiday from my work (Labour day and all), and I was so ready to chill. Like, relax and just watch Demon Slayer all day (awesome anime btw).
Last night, I got a call from a friend, asking me to hangout with them, maybe go to a mall, have lunch somewhere. basically enjoy the next day. You know how close friends are, they don’t really ask, they tell. Theres no "option" given lolz. You just have to go.
And honestly, I feel super lucky, to have friends like that. Super super lucky.
Everyone should have friends like that in their lives. The kind who pull you out of your daily routine, and make things more exciting. without waiting for a "yes, i am free".
But, and I am talking about me personally here, I sometimes just like to rest and relax somedays. Even if it's a holiday, or a long weekend. It's not that I don't like to hangout, or roam the city and stuff. Some of the best memories I have are of those impromptu random plans, like that one time where we just decided one afternoon and were off to a 3 day long trip to a hill station that same night haha.
I will always be the first one to hype the group up for hangouts. But still, somedays, I just wanna sleep in, maybe watch some anime, share a cheesecake with my roommate and laze around in my room. No itinerary.
There’s this small thought that stays though.
If I say "no" too many times… will I stop getting invited?
That fear, might be small, but it's definitely there. Maybe i am just overthinking, but who knows for sure haha.
What do you think? Ever experienced what i am talking about?
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